My Lullaby

Screen-free bedtime: a calmer way to wind down

Updated June 22, 2026

If your evenings end with a screen and begin with a struggle to fall asleep, the two are probably connected. Swapping that last screen for something quiet is one of the simplest ways to help kids drift off faster.

Here's why — and what to do instead.

Why screens make sleep harder

There are two reasons. First, the bright, blue-tinted light of a screen tells a child's brain it's still daytime, holding back melatonin, the hormone that brings on sleep.

Second, the content itself — fast, exciting, interactive — winds the brain up at exactly the moment it needs to wind down.

The hour before bed

Aim to switch screens off about an hour before sleep. That gives the brain time to change gears.

Dim the lights at the same time. Low, warm light signals 'evening' far more clearly than bright overhead lights, and helps the whole house settle.

What to do instead

Fill the gap with calm, connected things: a warm bath, quiet play, a cuddle — and, above all, a bedtime story.

A gentle story is the opposite of a screen. It slows breathing, dims the lights in the mind, and ends the day with closeness instead of stimulation. It's the easiest screen-swap there is.

Making the switch without a fight

Don't go cold turkey on a hard day. Give a five-minute warning, make 'screens off' a predictable part of the routine, and — crucially — replace rather than just remove.

'Screens off, story on' is a much easier sell than 'screens off.' Within a week or two, it simply becomes the new normal.

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This is general information for parents, not medical advice. Every child is different — for any concern about your child's sleep, development or health, please talk to your pediatrician, family doctor or health visitor.